MISTURA'S FRIENDS I NEED YOUR HELP.

 Bolanle has given birth to a bouncing baby boy. No marriage yet,  don't worry you will be invited if that happens. 

We rallied round her, she move in with her boyfriend, and we gave  her money to rent a shop (one hundred and twenty thousand,) her father gave it to her. I also sent goods down and we from our side gave her an additional two hundred thousand to start trading.

She got tired and said she doesn't want to marry again, can't explain what happened here but, I was aware of all the troubles, Bolanle is my own and I would not lie that she has taken the piss. 

She fought the guy and accused him of beating her, I will never support a man beating a woman, but in this case, Bolanle had already battered the guy and with what I know,  I couldn't blame the guy, he did some things, but he did not do everything that Bolanle was claiming that he did because the guy was constantly calling me and telling me as Bolanle's aggression was increasing. At some point he took all his stuff and ran from his house and Bolanle still went to his office to fight him. He called me, and I called everyone except Mistura and Bodamì because I knew that they would mess things up.

For you guys who know who Bolanle had become, it was a miracle that she was where she was then, someone impregnated her and was willing to marry her in the Nigeria of to day.

The guy couldn't take it anymore and fought back. I didn't see Bolanle's injury but there was an injury on the guy, both tooth bites at the back of his upper arm and all his doors and house smashed. 

Bolanle reported to our Arabic teacher (Alfa Rafiu) who then advised Bolanle to get the boyfriend that she was carrying his child arrested by the police without informing us, I new nothing about the arrest and none of my family was involved in this arrest, it was Bolanle and Alfa Rafiu's decision. 

Bolanle was still pregnant and she left her shop, she went to Benin Republic.  The guy called her a couple of times but she refused to return home. For more than a month, I can not be precise, Bolanle returned and at about aftet two weeks ago,  called the boyfriend in the middle of the night that her water broke. 

The guy rushed down and took Bolanle to three different hospitals before they could accept her and the condition that she came In with. The guy called me but I stayed away because I had been accused of using Bolanle for spiritual gain, at the same time taking her destiny, this was after spending all my money oo, but I wasn't the only one, even Mistura was the one  who used her destiny first as she claims, then Aunty Kudi, before myself and Femì wolì ( Lanre's friend) collected her destiny for me to create good fortune for my boys. Up till now the thought of using anything from her runs a shiver down my spine, I rejected that type of destiny and I wouldn't wish it on my enemy. 

As I was saying,  I couldn't answer or be part of the process when she was taken to the hospital. Moreover  the newest issue was that, Bolanle had brought her boyfriend to me and I had taken (a romantic , may be non romantic) interest in the boy, and I acquaint myself with him, even more than Bolanle my own; 'God ! What is wrong with people? ' if you don't help they say you ignore your people; if you help they say, you are using their destiny.  If your destiny is still intact why do you need my help? 

Well, she gave birth and the boy friend was there with her. There were complications because Bolanle didn't have anywhere to go, when she left her boyfriends house. Which lead to her becoming homeless. 

 Although, she wanted  Aunty Kudi to rent her an apartment but I blatantly rejected that.  We did not impregnate her and put her out of the boyfriends house,  also, I noticed that Bolanle believed that we were willing to look after her pregnancy to avoid her blackmailing us, she's been accusing us of keeping her  mother's property and we are not helping her. But the last time I checked,  I realised that, we sent Bolanle to school and paid for everything that kept her alive.  

Her mother left her since she was two years old, she travelled and some of us invested heavily in caring for Bolanle finacially, when some were only sorting their education, but  we all took care of her. 

Also, her mother's death was sudden and she was still very young, she was under age when she got pregnant and Bolanle's father did not stay to protect her, He ran. 

So she had nothing to her name and She left nothing for Bolanle.  For all that we had given both money and support was because we took her as one of us, which she doesn't deserve. 

Controversially, After Bolanle gave birth, the boyfriend sold his car to pay the balance of five hundred thousand Naira, Mistura had paid about two hundred and fifty thousand Naira  for down payment and the boy paid a little on top of that before he cleared the final payment. 

He texted me and said, he needed me to speak to him now. It sounds serious so I called him back. He said he wanted to bring Bolanle and his son home because they have been discharged from the hospital but he was afraid because he could not live in the same house with Bolanle considering all the lies she threw against him when she arrested him. So he said he would bring them home but he would find somewhere else to stay for the time being.  

He called Bolanle that very night and told her to pack all her things, that he was  coming to take them home. Bolanle told him to wait till the second day because it was too late in the night,( 🕚 11 o'clock,) and he responded that, he might not be able to see them the second day because of work and lamented to me. I told him to wait, since she wanted him to wait. 

He call me the second day as he got home from work, he said that he wanted to go and pick them.  It was in the evening again, the phone rang and rang but Bolanle did not pick the phone and after some time the phone stopped ringing.  He said well,  maybe it's because it's late again and decided to go and pick them first thing in the morning on Thursday. 

On Thursday morning, he called Bolanle that  he was on his way to pick them up, that Bolanle should put things together, but Bolanle said her father's people are coming to pick her. So, he  ran down there so that he could meet the father's people and on getting there, the Nurses said Bolanle had left since yesterday,  that she said, he wanted to come and pick them in the middle of the night, possibly for malicious reasons. 

I wouldn't talk about issues like this if I could reach  all the right people in person and the only way to reach you all is through this channel. 

We The Adenekan's are not in support of Bolanle's behaviour. 

MISTURA was the only one supporting this Idea of removing some ones Son from the hospital behind the father's back. 

Boda mì must be aware of the reasons behind it and Alfa Rafiu possibly can explain why they allow that kind of decision. 

This is not on us. Please if you want information on this matter you should call, 

 Boda mì Ganì, I'm not sure if he was aware that the child would be removed from the hospital though, 

Call Alfa Rafiu,  He is Bolanle's confidant. 

And Mistura is the brain behind it all. 

Please let the guy see his Son. You have no right to do what you have done and it is all on you.

 

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UCHECHUKWU MALCOM IBEAKUZIE FAMILY TREE

Uchechukwu M Ibeakuzie is the son of Abosede Adenekan and Obinna Ibeakuzie.

Abosede Adenekan is the daughter of ; HIS ROYAL HIGHNESS the OLUAJE OF AJEGUNLE.
CHIEF SS ADENEKAN. WHO DIED ON THE 4TH OF JULY,2004.

Obinna Ibeakuzie is the son of MR EMMANUEL IBEKWE IBEAKUZIE.
MR EMMANUEL IBEKWE IBEAKUZIE KNOWN AS (EGUNGWU- NWATALEOGBOO.
WHO DIED ON THE 16TH OF MAY, 2013. MR EMMANUEL WAS BORN ON THE 8TH OF AUGUST,1938. AND WAS BURIED THE 12 JULY 2013 10AM.

MR EMMANUEL IBEKWE IBEAKUZIE'S COUNTRY HOME IS IN THE OBOSI IDEMILI NORTH L.G.A., ANAMBRA STATE.

OBINNA S IBEAKUZIE WAS BROGHT UP BY HIS GRANDMOTHER ON HIS MOTHER SIDE,
THE UYELUMOR FAMILY. OBINNA LATER LEFT BECAUSE OF THE BAD TREATMENT WHICH HIS GRANDMOTHER GAVE HIM. HE LEFT OBOSI VILLAGE AT THE AGE OF 16 TO LEARN HOW TO BECOME A PROFESSIONAL  TRADER. HE WORKED WITH HIS MASTER
FOR NINE YEARS, IN LAGOS. WHEN HE LEFT, HE STAYED AT THE UYELUMOR GORGE FAMILY HOUSE FOR A FEW MONTHS TRYING TO GET A VISA TO TRAVEL OUT OF THE COUNTRY.
 OBNNA'S master did not pay him his dues to be able to survive life and the money given to him was not even enough to travel, but his uncle in lagos whose house he was staying at,at the time, GORGE Uyelumore,  he gave him a sum of 300 thousand naira  to be able to pursue his dream in England.

Obinna had lived in many country before he finally came to England where he met Abosede Adenekan at canning town station, on her way to visit a friend and their friendship proceeded to pregnancy of Chiamaka Favour Omotola Ibeakuzie.

                 CHIAMAKA IBEAUZIE IS THE FIRST DAUGHTER OF OBINNA SAMUEL IBEAKUZIE
                                                                       ^
                                                                        
                             THE FIRST SON OF OBINNA IBEAKUZIE
                                                                       
                                                                  IS
                                     UCHECHUKWU MALCOM IBEAKUZIE
                                                                    ^

                                         OBINNA'S SECOND SON IS
                                    ONYEKACHUKWU EMMANUEL IBEAKUZIE

                                                                     ^
                                                      OBINNA, THE FIRST SON OF
                                                EMMANUEL IBEKWE IBEAKUZIE
                                                                        ^
   ADEAZE IS THE FIRST DAUGHTER OF EMMANUEL IBEKWE IBEAKUZIE
                                                                       ^

                                  THE SECOND DAUGHTER IS EBELE CHIOMA BEAKUZIE
                                                                           ^

                                            THE  SECOND SON OF EMMANUEL IBEAKUZIE IS:

                                                     CHINEDU GODWIN IBEAKUZIE
                                            THE THIRD DAUGHTER IS OJUIGO                     IFENYINWA MERCEY
                                                  THE THIRD SON OF MR EMMANUEL IBEAKUZIE IS
                                                          CHUKWUEBUKA E IBEAKUZIE.
 THE IBEAKUZIE FAMILY STARTED FROM UM-OCHIOGA SUB FAMILY OF IRE VILLAGE
IN OBOSI IDEMILY NORTH L.G.A, ANAMBRA STATE. THE FAMILY TREE WHICH WAS
TRACED BY ONE OF THE SONS OF IBEAKUZIE MR CHINEDU GODWIN IBEAKUZIE AND WAS PUBLISHED BY ABOSEDE ADENEKAN IN THE MONTH OF AUGUST 2013 IN LONDON.THE HISTORY OF IBEAKUZIE WAS TRACED to

UMU - OCHIOGA WHO WAS THE FATHER OF
UNWOZO & NNEBO OCHIOGA
 UMU OCHIOGA HAVE TWO SONS
NNEBO OCHIOGA ,THE FIRST SON
UNWOZO OCHIOGA.

NNEBO OCHIOGA HAD FOUR CHILDREN
 IBEAKUZIE OCHIOGA THE FIRST SON
 UNDUMAYA OCHIOGA
OBIASA OCHIOGA
IWEKA OCHIOGA

IBEAKUZIE HAD THREE CHILDREN OF
CHUKWUANU IBEAKUZIE FIRST SON
APATIMUTUA IBEAKUZIE
ANIEKWE IBEAKUZIE

IBEAKUZIE IS THE GREAT GRANDFATHER OF ALL IBEAKUZIES.  FOR A REASONABLE REASON

KNOWN TO HIM ALONE,  HE DECIDED TO DROP HIS FAMILY NAME,  'OCHIOGA' AND KEEP HIS NAME AS THE FAMILY NAME, IBEAKUZIE.

FROM THE IBEAKUZIE GENERATION ALL THE CHILDREN OF THE OCHIOGA FAMILY BORN BY IBEAKUZIE KEPT HIS NAME IBEAKUZIE AS THEIR SURNAME.

CHUKWUANU HAS THREE CHILDREN
EMMANUEL IBEKWE IBEAKUZIE THE FIRST SON
UCHENNA IBEAKUZIE
OBI IBEAKUZIE

EMMANUEL IBEKWE IBEAKUZIE HAS SIX CHILDREN
ADAEZE IBEAKUZIE
EBELE IBEAKUZIE
OBINNA IBEAKUZIE THE FIRST SON
CHIEDU IBEAKUZIE
OJUIGO IBEAKUZIE

OBINNA IBEAKUZIE HAS THREE CHILDREN AT THE MOMENT
CHIAMAKA IBEAKUZIE
UCHECHUKWU IBEAKUZIE THE FIRST SON
ONYEKACHUKWU IBEAKUZIE
EBUKA IBEAKUZIE

BY THE YEAR 2015 THE IBEAKUZIE FAMILY TREE HAD ONLY BEEN TRACED TO SIX GENERATION BY ABOSEDE ADENEKAN.

WIKIPEDIA OBOSI AND IRE VILLAGE IN ANAMBRA STATE

OBOSI IS ONE OF THE VILLAGE IN ANAMBRA STATE IN NIGERIA. THIS INFORMATION IS RECEIVE FROM WIKILOPEDIA, THE FREE ENCCYCLOPEDIA.

ANAMBRA IS A STATE IN SOUTH-EASTERN NIGERIA. Is name is an anglicised version of the original 'OMA MBALA'. The native name of the Anambra  river.

The capital and the seat of government is AWKA.
Onitsha and Nnewi are the biggest commercial and industrial cities, respectively.

THE STATE'S THEME IS "LIGHT OF THE NATION".

Boundaries are formed by DELTA STATE  to the west, IMO STATE and RIVER STATE to the south, ENUGU STATE to the east and KOGI STATE to the north.

The origin of the name is derived from the Anambra river OMAMBALA which is a tributary of the famous RIVER NIGER.

THE INDIGENIOUSE ETHNIC GROUP OF THE ANAMBRA STATE ARE IGBO THEY ARE ABOUT 98% OF THE POPULATION, A SMALL POPULATION OF IGBALA  ARE ABOUT 2% OF THE POPULATION WHO LIVE IN THE NOTH WESTERN PART OF THE STATE.

Anambra is the  most populated state in the Federal Republic of Nigeria, and the second most densely populated state in Nigeria after Lagos state. The stretch of more than 45km between OBA and AMORKA contains  a cluster of numerous thickly populated villages and small towns giving the area an estimated average density of 1,500-2,000 persons per square kilometre.
                                                               
                                                                        RESOURCES
Anambra is rich in natural gas, crude oil, bauxite, ceramic and has an almost 100 percent  arable soil.

In the year 2006, a foundation ceremony for the first Nigerian private refinery orient petroleum refinery (OPR) was made in Nsugbe-aguleri area.
The orient petroleum resource Ltd, (OPRL) OWNER OF OPR, WAS LICENCED IN JUNE 2002, by the federal government to construct a private refinery with a 55,000 b/d capacity.

Further more, Anambra state is a state that as many other resources in terms of agro based activities like fishing and farming, as well as land cultivated for pasturing and animal husbandry.

Currently Anambra state has the lowest poverty rate in Nigeria.

                                                                                    HISTORY OF ANAMBRA
Anambra possesses a history that stretches back to the 9th century AD, as revealed by archaeological exacavation at IGBO-UKWU and Ezira; Great work in iron, bronze, copper, and pottery works belonging to the ancient kingdom of Nri, REVEALED A sophisticated divine kingship administrative system which held sway in the area of anambra from c. 948 AD to 1911.

During the Nigerian/Biafran  war a relief airstrip, was constructed by Biafran Engineers in the town of Uli/Amorka(code named "Annabelle"). Extremely dangerous relief flights took off from SAO TOME and other sites loaded with tons of relief supplies to the Biafran population.
Disgusted by the suffering and mounting death toll in Biafra from starvation as well as the continuous  harassement of the relief planes by the Nigerian Airforce, CARL GUSTAF VON ROSEN resigned as a red cross relief supplier to biafra to form an AIRFORCE OF FIVE MINICOIN PLANES MALMO MFI-9 station at the Uga airstrip. HE NAMED HIS TINY BUT EFFECTIVE AIRFORCE "BABIES OF BIAFRA" in honour of the babies who died via starvation inside Biafra.

OLD ANAMBRA STATE WAS CREATED IN 1976 FROM PART OF EAST CENTRAL STATE , AND ITS CAPITAL WAS ENUGU. A  RE-ORGANISATION IN 1991 DIVIDED ANAMBRA INTO TWO STATES, ANAMBRA AND ENUGU THE CAPITAL OF ANAMBRA IS AWKA .

                                                                               CULTURE AND TOURISM
AGULU CROCODILE  LAKE IS LOCATED ALONG AWKA ROAD IN AGULU, ANIOCHA LOCAL GOVERNMENT AREA OF THE STATE. A potential  tourist site, it is home to an estimated three hundred crocodiles and water. Fishing is not allowed on the lake and the crocodiles, being sacred animal to the people, can not be killed. Legend says that these crocodiles were instruments in delivering the town from enemy soldiers during the Nigerian civil war. It is also believed that these sacred crocodiles and turtles transformed themselves into  beautiful ladies and lured the solders unaware, into the lake where they disappeared without a trace. At noon the crocodiles and the turtles appeared at the bank of the lake to take sunlight. Vsit the link for more information edit source



                                      NAMES OF OBOSI PEOPLE IN LONDON

 

MEET THE LONDONERS

OBINNA IBEAKUZIE

ABUA IBEAKUZIE

ONYEKA UYELUMOR

JERRY NWORAH

SALOBRA OKEY

CHUKA AGOM

NATHANIEL NWORA

OGO ICHU

CHI CHI  AKUTU

IKENNA NDRIKA

OBINNA OBAEMEKA

DOZIE MADUKA

EMEKA ENELI

IK OKOMA

NONYE CHUKE

OBINNA UGOANA

MARTIN AGWUEGBO

NZUBIKE IWEDINOBI

EMEKA OGBOGU

CHUKWUDI OJIAKU

ERIC NWANEGBO

CHUKA NJEGBU

UCHE IBEME

EBELE ONWUEGBUSI

ONYEKA ONOCHIE

ONOCHIE OKOLO

AMAKA ARINZE

EMEKA ICHU

VICTOR NWOSU

BENSOU EJIKEME

CHIEDU OKENNA

EROBU CONSTANCE

VICTOR ARINZE

UCHE ANOLIEFO

NZUBE ONOCHE

MADUKA OFONZE 

AND THERE ARE MANY MORE GREAT MEN AND WOMEN OF ANAMBRA, OBOSI IN LONDON. THE NAMES OF THESE OBOSI BROTHERS AND SISTERS ARE COPIED FROM THE OBOSI FORUM MEMBERS LIST  LONDON, 2014.

 

 

 

                            

 

 

10 MISTAKES THAT DESTROY RELATIONSHIP

* THE ONE WORST ENEMY OF A GOOD RELATIONSHIP IS LACK OF COMMUNICATION,

 *DWELLING ON THE PAST MISTAKES.

 *DEEPER SUBCONSCIOUS ANGRY FEELINGS CAN DESTROY A GOOD RELATIONSHIP IF YOU DO NOT FIND AWAY TO LET IT OUT AND DEAL WITH THE ISSUE THAT IS HOLDING YOU BACK.


HOW TO DEAL WITH IT

1) TALKING; LEARNING TO TALK, WHICH MEANS FINDING WAYS TO EXPRESS WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY IS A BIG TASK. COMMUNICATION OR GETTING YOUR POINT ACROSS SIMPLY MEANS SAYING WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY.

TO GET ANYONE TO LISTEN, IT'S BETTER TO USE SIMPLER WORDS AND DITCH AN UNHELPFUL MANNER OF TALKING, SUCH AS BLAMING.

2) COMMON HABITS THAT GET IN THE WAY OF HELPFUL COMMUNICATION, THAT YOU MIGHT NOT EVEN BE AWARE OF.

NOT SAYING WHAT YOU REALLY MEAN.
*NOT ADMITTING THAT SOMETHING IS BOTHERING YOU WHEN IT IS.
*TELLING YOUR PARTNER YOU DON'T MIND SOMETHING WHEN YOU DO.
*THAT YOU ARE HAPPY WHEN YOU ARE NOT
*ISSUES THAT YOUR PARTNER CAN DO NOTING ABOUT BECAUSE YOU'VE ACCEPTED THAT NOTING IS BOTHERING YOU, YOU'RE FEELINGS WILL BE BUILDING UP OVER MONTHS OR YEARS BEFORE YOU EXPLODE.
*NOT HAVING THE COURAGE TO SAY WHAT YOU FEEL AT THE TIME, PREVENTING IT UNTIL IT BECOMES MUCH LARGER AND MORE DIFFICULT TO SOLVE.

3) MAKING SOMETHING ELSE THE ISSUE. BY STARTING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE INSTEAD OF SAYING WHAT IS REALLY BOTHERING YOU.

4) NOT TALKING AND AVOIDING THE ISSUE THAT IS BOTHERING YOU, SOMETIMES RETREATING INTO SILENCE, OR GOING OUT, OR GOING TO BED EARLY RATHER THAN TALKING CAN BE A PROBLEM.
*MAYBE NOT TRUSTING YOURSELF TO SPEAK SHOULD IN CASE YOU GO OVER THE TOP.
*HIDING AN IMPORTANT ISSUE FROM YOUR PARTNER AND SO YOU'RE FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO TALK ABOUT OTHER MATTERS AND HOPPING THAT THE BAD FEELING WILL GO AWAY OR YOUR PARTNER WILL GUESS.
THE FEELINGS MIGHT GO AWAY  TEMPORARILY BUT WHEN THEY RETURN, THEY WILL BE  STRONGER THAN BEFORE.

5)NAGGING. GOING ON AND ON ABOUT SOMETHING AND CONVINCING YOURSELF THAT  YOU ARE BEING POSITIVE, IT'S TRUE YOU NEED A CHANGE WHICH IS IMPORTANT THAT YOU COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY BUT SAYING SOMETHING OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND TELLING SOMEONE HOW TO BEHAVE WONT GET YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE. AND IT WILL HAVE A BAD EFFECT OF MAKING THE OTHER PERSON GO DEAF.

6) HOLDING FORTH, WHEN YOU GET INTO THE HABIT OF TALKING ABOUT EVERYTHING THAT IS ON YOUR MIND WITHOUT NOTICING WHAT EFFECT THIS HAS ON YOUR PARTNER.

7) BEING A KNOW-IT- ALL, A PSYCHOANALYSE, YOU ARE AN EXPERT AND ALWAYS RIGHT.
*YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR PARTNER IS THINKING AND DOING.
*YOUR INSTINCTS ARE ACCURATE.
*YOU CANT GET IT WRONG SO THERE IS NO REASON FOR YOUR PARTNER TO EXPLAIN, YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT WOULD HAPPEN.

8)DISGUISED CRITICISM SAYING HOW YOU FEEL IN A BLAMING FASHION.
*THINGS LIKE, "YOU MAKE ME SAD OR ANGRY " MAYBE OR, "YOU MAKE ME DEPRESSED!"
*MAKING YOUR PARTNER RESPONSIBLE FOR HOW YOU FEEL
*CRITICISING YOUR PARTNER TO GET A REACTION TO DEFEND,  WILL CREATE MORE PROBLEMS RATHER THAN SOLUTIONS.

9) THE WAY YOU TALK, THE MANNER AND TONE OF YOUR VOICE ARE VERY IMPORTANT.
*SOMETIMES WHAT YOU SAY IS NOT THE ISSUE BUT THE WAY YOU SAID IT.

10)SWITCHING OFF. LETTING YOUR MIND WANDER ELSEWHERE WHEN YOUR PARTNER IS TALKING.

11)HALF LISTENING. YOUR MIND IS ON THE TELEVISION OR OCCUPIED WITH PRIVATE THOUGHTS OF YOUR OWN.

12)INTERRUPTING. WANTING YOUR OWN POINT  OF VIEW TO PREVAIL AND NOT PREPARED TO HEAR OTHER PEOPLES OPINIONS.

13)MIND READING. YOUR PARTNER IS THE ONLY PERSON YOU KNOW BEST IN THE WORLD AND THAT MAKES YOU BELIEVE YOU KNOW WHAT THEY THINK AND FEEL.

14)PROVING YOUR POINT. SELECTING LISTENING, WAITING FOR WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR THAT YOU'VE PROVED YOUR POINT.
IGNORING ANYTHING ELSE YOUR PARTNER SAYS
LISTENING WITHOUT HEARING.

15)BLOCKING. SHUTTING YOUR PARTNER UP BY CRITICISING SOUND.
LOOKING SHOCKED.
CORRECTING.
LAUGHING.
CHANGING THE SUBJECT.
ARGUING.
WEEPING.
SHOUTING.

ALL THESE ACTIONS CAN DAMAGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND CAUSE DIVORCE OR SEPARATION. IF YOU DON'T LEARN TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY AND LEARN HOW TO HANDLE EACH OTHERS NEEDS AND WANTS.
                                   
                                                           THANKS FOR READING THIS.

PRACTICAL WAYS TO A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP

I UNDERSTAND MY RELATIONSHIP MORE ,WHEN I START TO RESPECT MY PARTNERS NEEDS .

I HAVE BEEN VERY SAD AND ANGRY  WITH MY PARTNER, ALSO, MY UNHAPPINESS WITH HIM HAS CHANGE MY FEELINGS TOWARDS HIM.

I AVOID  ARGUMENTS AND TALK OVER THE REASON WHY I'M NOT HAPPY
BECAUSE I KNOW THAT WILL ONLY BRING MORE ARGUMENTS.

MY KEEPING QUIET IS NOT HELPING THE MATTER EITHER, I GUESS ITS ONLY MAKING THE MATTER  WORSE. THAT IS THE REASON WHY I STARTED LOOKING FOR A AWAY OUT.

 I BECAME  DESPERATE ABOUT WHAT I WAS GOING TO DO TO PREVENT SEPARATION. I LOVED HIM AND HIS CHILDREN LOVED HIM TOO MUCH. THEY WERE GOING TO NEED HIM TO BE THERE AND HELP THEM TO GROW AS CONFIDENT ADULTS.

THAT WAS WHY I NEEDED TO PUT SOME EFFORT IN MAKING MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM WORK.

SO I DECIDED TO SEEK ADVICE FROM A RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLOR.
I LEARN A LOT FROM THE COUNSELLOR. THE PART OF IT THAT AMAZED ME THE MOST WAS THAT, IS A FACT OF LIFE, THAT TO LOVE SOMEONE BRINGS HEARTACHE. ALSO, THE MORE SOMEONE MATTER TO YOU, IS THE MORE YOU WILL BEGIN TO MIND WHAT THEY DO. ADDITIONALLY, MOST PROBLEMS THAT ARISE IN PARTNERSHIP, TEST ONES LOVE. HOWEVER, THE HEARTACHE LOVE BRINGS CAN INCREASE THE STRENGHT OF ONE LOVE.

MOREOVER,  THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO LEARN TO TACKLE DIFFERENCES POSITIVELY, WHICH CAN HELP COUPLES TO SURVIVE SERIOUS CRISES. ALSO WORKING THROUGH PROBLEMS TOGETHER SO THAT THERE IS NO WINNER OR LOSER  WILL HAVE A TRANSFORMING EFFECT ON LOVE.

LOVE THAT HAS NOT BEEN TESTED IS MORE FRAGILE.
SOME COUPLES BREAK UP AT THE FIRST SIGN OF TROUBLE.
AND OTHER COUPLES CLING TOGETHER FOREVER WHEN CLEARLY THERE IS NO LOVE. BUT MOST THINGS THAT ARE WORTH HAVING ARE GAINED THROUGH A GREAT DEAL OF EFFORT AND CONCENTRATION.

A DEEP, LASTING, ENRICHING LOVE MUST BE THE MOST PRECIOUS THING WE CAN HAVE IN OUR LIVES. BUT IT USUALLY STARTS WITH EMOTION, PASSION AND EXCITEMENT. WHETHER IT WILL BURN ITSELF OUT LIKE A MAGNIFICENT FIREWORK OR DEVELOP INTO THE KIND OF STRONG FUNDAMENTAL LOVE, THAT WILL DEPEND ON HOW WE APPROACH THE BAD TIMES.

PROBLEMS CAN BE GOOD FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO GROW. BUT ONLY IF YOU BOTH KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH THE PROBLEMS. WHICH WILL INVOLVE BRINGING YOURSELF TO THE ISSUE, YOUR WISDOM AND SENSE OF HUMOUR; YOUR GENEROSITY AND RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER,

;YOUR TOLERANCE AND YOUR COMMITMENT TO THE RELATIONSHIP;PATIENCE AND COURAGE AND SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO DO THIS  FOR A LONG PERIOD OF TIME.

FURTHERMORE, I'VE UNDERSTOOD THAT, IF WE DON'T PUT EFFORT INTO HOW WE SHOW LOVE, WE MIGHT MISS THE RICHEST AND MOST SATISFYING EXPERIENCES AND PARTS OF IT.

EVERY PROBLEM LARGE OR SMALL , CHALLENGES YOU WITH TWO POSSIBLE OUTCOMES, YOU CAN DIMINISH YOUR LOVE OR STRENGTHEN IT. BUT YOU HAVE TO DO THE HARD WORK AND IS NEVER A WAST OF TIME, LEARNING TO HANDLE LOVE AND THE PROBLEM THAT RESULTS FROM IT WILL MAKE  YOU A STRONGER AND MORE CONFIDENT PERSON.

ANY INDIVIDUAL WHO WANTS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP MUST BE PREPARED TO COMPROMISE, TO ENDURE DIFFICULTIES AND DISAPPOINTMENTS. IT'S TRUE THAT TRUE LOVE SHOULD BE EFFORTLESS, BUT PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS REQUIRE  HARD WORK.

FOR MANY OF US, A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP IS ABOUT MYTHICAL UNION, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, SPIRITUALLY, AND EMOTIONALLY. AND WE WANT OUR PARTNER TO SUPPLY EVERYTHING WE COULD WISH FOR AND WE WANT TO BE HARMONIOUS FOREVER. THE REASON WE WANT ALL THIS IS BECAUSE WE HAVE TASTED IT BEFORE. WHEN WE FALL IN LOVE, WE GENERATE THAT FEELINGS  AND BELIEVE THAT FALLING IN LOVE SHOULD REMAIN LIKE THAT.

THE SCIENTISTS HAVE COMPARED THE FALLING IN LOVE FEELING TO THE FELLING WE HAVE WHEN WE TAKE DRUGS OR DRINK AND THE THOUGHT WE HOLD AND SENSATION ARE THE SAME.

WHEN WE ARE IN LOVE WE CAN DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING FOR OUR PARTNER AND WE WOULD NOT BOTHER ABOUT IMPERFECTION WHICH IS THE SAME WITH DRUGS OR DRINKS BUT THESE FEELINGS WILL EVENTUALLY WEAR OUT, BUT THE TANTALISING MEMORY OF IT WILL REMAIN.

 THE FACT IS THAT REAL RELATIONSHIPS HAVE TO LEAVE THIS FANTASY BEHIND AND THAT IS HARD FOR SOME PEOPLE TO ACCEPT. BUT THE BEST RELATIONSHIP PROVIDES SOMETHING MORE VALUABLE THAN THIS ROMANTIC FOG.

WHEN WE ARE IN LOVE WE ARE COMPLETELY WRAPPED UP WITH THE OTHER PERSON IN INTOXICATINGLY EXCLUSIVE AND EXCITING ONE -NESS. THIS UNION COULD BE SUFFOCATING AND LIMITING IF CONTINUED AND IT CAN'T LAST. EVERY CHANGE IN THE CIRCUMSTANCES HAS THE EFFECT OF BREAKING THE SPELLS.

STRONG INVISIBLE BONDS ARE FOUND IN PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS.
A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP CAN MEET ANY CHALLENGE AND USE THE EXPERIENCE POSITIVELY. A CRISIS CAN HIGHLIGHT THE VALUE OF A RELATIONSHIP, SHOWING YOU HOW MUCH IT MEANS TO YOU,
IT CAN PROVE HOW GOOD YOU ARE AT COPING OR IT CAN FORCE YOU TO FIND NEW WAYS TO COPE.

 YOU CAN BEGIN TO BUILD A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP BY LISTENING TO EACH OTHER AND RESPECTING EACH OTHERS NEEDS AND WANTS.
                    

WALK WITH GOD THE FATHER OF ALL.

GOD IS LOVE.

WALKING WITH GOD, IS WALKING IN LOVE.
TALKING A BOUT GOD IS TALKING ABOUT CREATION.
IS TALKING ABOUT THE HIGHER THAN THE HIGHEST,THE ABOVE ALL, THE GREATER, THE MERCIFUL.


 MY FATHER IN WHOM I DEPEND ON, WHOM I TRUST AND REST MY HOPE ON.
 HE HIS THE ONLY ONE THAT  KNOWS IT ALL.
 IF MY FATHER SAYS KNOW? WHO CAN SAY YES?
THE ON CHANGING CHANGER.
THE SECRET OF LIFE.
THE ALL THAT HAS BEEN.
THE ALL THAT WILL EVER BE.
THE INFINITE POWER.
 THE CREATION,
THE ALWAYS WAS.
THE ALWAYS HAS BEEN.
THE NEVER CAN BE CREATED,
THE NEVER CAN BE DESTROYED.
THE ALL THAT EVER WAS.
THE ONLY THAT WILL ALWAYS BE.

GOD GAVE US EVERYTHING, AND WE CAN HAVE EVERYTHING IF WE UNDERSTAND GOD, KNOW GOD AND FOLLOW HIS WAYS;
                                         
                                                       HE GAVE US THE LIFE;

LIFE; HE WHO HAS THE SON HAS LIFE; HE WHO DOES NOT HAVE THE SON OF GOD
DOES NOT HAVE LIFE. 1 JOHN 5;2

PRAY; AND I WILL DO WHATEVER YOU ASK IN MY NAME, SO THAT THE SON MAY BRING GLORY TO THE FATHER. YOU MAY ASK ME ANYTHING IN MY NAME AND I WILL DO IT. JOHN14:13,14

WISDOM: FOR WISDOM IS MORE PRECIOUS THAN RUBIES, AND NOTING YOU DESIRE CAN COMPARE WITH HER. PROVERBS 8:11

IF ANY OF YOU LACK WISDOM, HE SHOULD ASK GOD, WHO GIVES GENEROUSLY TO ALL WITHOUT FINDING FAULT, AND IT WILL BE GIVING TO HIM JAMES 1:5

HEAVEN: GOD HAS GIVEN US NEW BIRTH INTO A LIVING HOPE THROUGH THE RESURRECTION OF JESUS CHRIST FROM THE DEAD, AND INTO AN INHERITANCE THAT CAN NEVER PERISH, SPOIL OR FADE - KEPT IN HEAVEN FOR YOU. 1 PETER 1: 3,4

ETERNAL LIFE: I TELL YOU THE TRUTH, WHOEVER HEARS MY WORD AND BELIEVES HIM WHO SENT ME HAS LIFE AND WILL NOT BE CONDEMNED; HE HAS CROSSED OVER FROM DEATH TO LIFE. JOHN 5:24

SECURITY: I GIVE THEM ETERNAL LIFE, AND THEY SHALL NEVER PERISH,NO ONE CAN SNATCH THEM OUT OF MY HAND. MY FATHER WHO HAS GIVEN IT TO ME IS GREATER THAN ALL. JOHN 10:28,29

ENEMIES: LOVE YOUR ENEMIES, DO GOOD TO THOSE WHO HATE YOU, BLESS THOSE WHO CURSE YOU YOU, PRAY FOR THOSE WHO ILL- TREAT YOU. LUKE 6:27,28.

THAT IS MY FATHER HE IS ABLE TO DO ALL THINGS.
ALL WHO ARE CRYING
ALL WHO ARE WEAK
COME TO THE FATHER AND SIN KNOW MORE.
 ACCEPT JESUS HAS YOUR LORD AND YOUR SAVIOUR, ACCEPTING JESUS
IS THE BEGINNING OF UNDERSTANDING GODS WAYS AND HIS COMMANDMENTS.

 I AM THE GOD YOUR GOD,
YOU SHALL HAVE NO OTHER GODS BEFORE ME
YOU SHALL NOT MAKE FOR YOURSELF AN IDOL
YOU SHALL NOT MISUSE THE NAME OF THE LORD YOUR GOD
REMEMBER THE SABBATH DAY BY KEEPING IT HOLY
HONOUR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER
YOU SHALL NOT MURDER
YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY
YOU SHALL NOT STEAL
YOU SHALL NOT GIVE FALSE TESTIMONY
YOU SHALL NOT COVET ANY THING THAT BELONGS TO YOUR NEIGHBOUR

                        JESUS SAID THE GREATEST COMMANDMENT IS
TO LOVE THE GOD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, YOUR SOUL AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND .
SECOND IS TO LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF. MATTHEW 22.
                                            GIVE GOD ALL THE GLORY
                                                  WITHOUT GOD
                                              THERE IS KNOW YOU!
                                                  PRAISE THE LORD!

GET RID OF YOUR SAD EMOTIONS.

IT IS OK TO FEEL BIG EMOTIONS AND FEEL ANGRY.

HUGE SADNESS,GRIEF AND CRYING IS A NATURAL WAY
TO RELIEVE  TENSION AND THE UNCOMFORTABLE FEELING
INSIDE WHEN WE LOST SOMEONE OR IN TIMES OF TROUBLE.

WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS AND WE HAVE EMOTIONS.
IT'S NATURAL TO FEEL BIG EMOTION DEEPLY AND TO LET
IT SHOW, WE DON'T HAVE TO BE ASHAMED OF OUR FEELINGS.

SITTING ON OUR FEELINGS IS WHAT IS NOT GOOD,
THEY WILL GET SQUASHED THAT WAY,
IS BETTER TO LET THEM OUT,DEAL WITH THEM, AND LET GO.

LIFE IS NOT OUR ENEMY.

 IF WE HAVE NOT CRY, OUR EYES CAN'T BE BEAUTIFUL.
BEAR AND ENDURE, THIS SORROW WILL END ONE DAY OR IT WILL ONE DAY PROVE
TO BE FOR YOUR OWN GOOD.

BELIEVE ME! WHEN THE UNEXPECTED HAPPENS THAT IS WHEN YOU WILL UNDERSTAND THE MIRACLE OF LIFE. PROBLEM ARE NOT THE PROBLEM
COPING IS THE PROBLEM.

IN ONE YEAR I LOST MY DADDY AND MY SISTER.
THE YEAR AFTER I LOST MY MUM, BEFORE I LOST MY MUM I WAS PREGNANT.
MY BABY WAS 3 MONTH  WHEN I LOST MY MUM.
MY PARTNER TURN AGAINST ME, EVERYONE THAT WAS SUPPOSE TO BE THERE WAS NOT THERE.
HONESTLY I HAD KNOW SHOULDER TO CRY ON. I WAS TOTALLY ALONE.
ME AND MY DAUGHTER WAS ALL I HAVE.

MY FRIENDS THAT I CAN CONFINED IN START TO USE MY WORDS AGAINST ME.
THEY CHALLENGE ME UNNECESSARILY, THEY TURN AGAINST ME.

LIFE BECOME IMPOSSIBLE
I BECAME VERY WEAK AND SICK.
I LOST CONTROL BECAUSE ALL WAS TOO MUCH FOR ONLY ME.

ON ONE SUNDAY I DRESS UP, CARRY MY DAUGHTER I GO TO CHURCH,
AFTER THE PROGRAM I STAY PUT IN CHURCH, AND REFUSE TO COME HOME.
THE PASTOR NEW I WAS GOING THROUGH SOME TROUBLE AND HE WANTED TO HELP, BUT I DID NOT RESPOND TO ALL HIS OFFERS, TO AVOID MORE TROUBLE.
SLOWLY SLOWLY I BECAME WITHDRAW FROM PEOPLE, BUT INSIDE ME AM CRYING
TO GOD 24/7. AT THIS POINT I HAD WISHED TOO MANY WISHES TO DISAPPEARED, BUT MY WISH DID NOT COME TROUGH.

ONE DAY I HAD  ENOUGH, SO I BROKE DOWN AND CRY LIKE A BABY. I CRY LIKE I HAVE NEVER CRY BEFORE.

MORNING AND NIGHT  MY JOB WAS TO CRY.
AFTER A DAY OR TWO I GOT TIRED OF CRYING.
 I WAS STANDING IN THE LIVING ROOM WITH MY TWO HANDS FOLD TO MY CHEST.
I LOOK UP AND SAY "GOD I HAVE HAD ENOUGH I AM NOT AFRAID ANYMORE, DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO".

                                                 FROM THAT DAY I WEPT KNOW MORE.

I STARTED TO FEEL SOME KIND OF STRENGHT THAT I HAVE NEVER FELT BEFORE.
I GUESS BECAUSE MY FEELINGS HAD CHANGED, PEOPLE THAT I DON'T EVEN KNOW START TO BLESS ME. AND FEED ME WITH GOOD INFORMATION'S THAT EMPOWER ME.

SOMEONE IN THE CHURCH GAVE ME A SMALL CARD HEAR WHAT THE CARD SAYS;
                                  
                                       TO DAY FROM YOUR GRIEVING HEART
                                              COME ONLY A PAINFUL SIGH
                                   WONDERING WILL THINGS EVER FEEL NORMAL AGAIN
                                   AS YOU STRUGGLE TO COPE AND ASK WHY?

                                        THE MANY ANSWERS YOU REQUIRE
                                       SEEM AS IF THEY MIGHT NEVER COME
                                GRADUALLY THEY WILL AS YOUR PAIN SUBSIDES
                                            AND YOU STOP FEELING NUMB

                                           TRUST IN ME, I'VE BEEN THERE TOO
                              I KNOW THE PAIN YOU ARE GOING THROUGH
                             GOD IS AT WORK AND TO YOU HE WILL SEND
                          ANGELS IN THE FORM OF FAMILY AND FRIENDS.

                                THEY WILL LIFT YOU FROM YOUR SORROW
                                    KEEPING YOU FOCUSED AND STRONG
                                 SO THAT SOME DAY SOON TO THIS WORLD
                                        AGAIN YOU WILL FEEL LIKE YOU BELONG

                                            I KNOW RIGHT NOW THESE WORDS
                                             MAY SEEM EMPTY AND HOLLOW
                                       BE PATIENT MY FRIEND DON'T DESPAIR
                                    THE HEALING HAND OF GOD WILL FOLLOW.

MANY OF THIS TYPE OF MESSAGES WAS GIVING TO ME BY PEOPLE IN THE CHURCH.
AND ALL MY PROBLEM DIDN'T JUST GO AWAY, BUT I WAS TOO STRONG FOR THE THINGS THAT TROUBLES ME AND THEY DON'T TROUBLES ME KNOW MORE.

PLEASE MY BELOVED BELIEVING IN SOMETHING HELPS.
AND BELIEVING IN GOD IS THE EASIEST, THERE ARE LOT OF ENCOURAGING
WORDS IN THE BIBLE WHICH CAN HELP YOU IN ANY SITUATION YOU MIGHT BE GOING TROUGH,YOU ARE NOT ALONE, LEAVE YOUR WORRIES TO GOD AND HE WILL TAKE CARE OF IT. IS THE GOD YOUR GOD, HE KNOWS THE BEGINNING AND THE END

                        DON'T BE SURPRISE THAT OUT OF YOUR GREATEST DISPEAR
                                      WILL COME UNEXPECTED OPPORTUNITY ONE DAY
                                                       AND YOU WILL BE SAD
                                                                 KNOW MORE!



                               

IF YOU MUST BE A FRIEND BE A TRUE FRIEND

A TRUE FRIEND WILL POINT OUT YOUR MISTAKES TO YOU,
 AND CORRECT YOU IRRESPECTIVE OF HOW YOU ARE GOING TO FEEL.

 A real friend will stand by you in every situation you are in.

A true friend will not envy you.

 A real friend will not lead you astray.

And a real friend will not use your mistakes against you.

A TRUE FRIEND IS A FRIEND YOU CAN CALL UP AT 4AM.

A good friend is loyal, honest and reliable, dependable, and pleasant.

 FRIENDSHIP IS A SINGLE SOUL DWELLING IN TWO BODIES.

That include both party you and your friend.

Jealousy! Talking about your friend or envying your friend is wrong.

IF YOU TALK BAD ABOUT YOUR FRIEND IN THERE ABSENT, That is betrayal. IF YOU ARE A TRUE FRIEND.YOU WON'T BEHAVE IN SUCH MANNER. YOU SHOULD ALWAYS LOOK OUT FOR YOUR FRIENDS IN THEIR  PRESENT OR ABSENT.

IF YOU  HAVE SPOKEN BADLY ABOUT YOUR FRIEND for some reason AND YOU KEEP IT TO YOUR SELF AS A SECRET THAT IS NOT FRIENDSHIP.

IF YOUR FRIEND Come out open TO TELL YOU WHAT THEY'VE DONE WRONG, OR IF THEY FEEL THAT THEY HAVE BETRAY YOU IN ANYWAY AND ASK YOU FOR FORGIVENESS, YOU SHOULD FORGIVE THEM. BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT A GOOD FRIEND WILL DO.

A GOOD FRIEND WILL FORGIVE THEIR FRIENDS MISTAKE.
AND LET GO OF THERE WRONG ACTION OR BAD BEHAVIOUR.
NOTHING BUT HEAVEN ITSELF IS BETTER THAN A TRUE FRIEND.

HONESTY! Your friend might not be too honest about there life and the way they live it. But they WILL BE honest enough as a true friend.

FORGIVING! We are not God, if you upset your friend, and  ask for forgiveness but your friend refuse to forgive you that is not  friendship.

But on the other hand you have to check yourself  before you judge your friend if you are a bad influence on your friend. for this reason a friend might decided to forgive you. but put an end to the friendship.
                       MOST OF ALL A TRUE FRIEND WILL ALWAYS BE THERE!

Being there count.  when your friend is going through ups and down.
When your friend need a shoulder to cry on
 When your friend needed to be console with a cup of tea.
  or words that will console their grieve.
  Be a shoulder to cry on without fear of judgement.

BE THERE THAT IS WHAT IS A TRUE FRIEND. A TRUE FRIEND  WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR THEIR FRIENDS. TO HELP, TO PROTECT,AND TO SUPPORT.

AROMATHERAPY MASSAGE FOR BABY

THE TERMS AROMATHERAPY IS A DESCRIPTION OF THE THERAPEUTIC ACTION
OF AROMATIC PLANT ESSENCES. IT WAS FOUND REMARKABLE REGENERATIVE
AND ANTISEPTIC EFFECTIVE FOR HEALING WOUNDS, FOR BEAUTY THERAPY
AND HEALTH CARE NEEDS.

THE VITAL ELEMENT IN ANY AROMATHERAPY TREATMENT IS THE PURE ESSENTIAL OIL BECAUSE THIS OILS ARE DIFFERENT FROM THE HEAVY OILS WE USE IN COOKING FOOD. THEY ARE CONCENTRATED ESSENCES MUCH LIGHTER THAN WATER ,AND HIGHLY INFLAMMABLE. ESSENTIAL OILS ARE ESTABLISHED ALTERNATIVE NATURAL THERAPY IN TREATMENT OF ALMOST EVERY TYPE OF ACHE AND PAIN.

                        EVERY BABY RESPOND TO TOUCH FROM NEWBORN.
IT HAS BEEN MEDICALLY PROVEN THAT MASSAGE BETWEEN MOTHER AND BABY
IS A MARVELLOUS WAY OF ENCHANCING NATURAL BONDING, ALL BABY
LOVE TO BE CARESSED AND CUDDLED.
MASSAGE REASSURE AND SOOTHE BABIES.
MASSAGE HELPS RELIEVE COLIC PAIN
MASSAGE ALLEVIATE WIND AND OTHER DIGESTIVE PROBLEM.
MASSAGE CAN ALSO BUILD PERSISTENCE TO COUGHS AND COLDS.

                                     MASSAGE OILS FOR BABIES
SWEET ALMOND, SUNFLOWER OIL ARE VERY GOOD.
BUT I HAVE ALWAYS USE OLIVE OIL TO MASSAGE MY BABY BECAUSE
IS VERY GOOD ON HIS SKIN.

                                             GIVE BABY A NICE WARM BATH
LAY BABY GENTLY ON THE BACK ON A WARM TOWEL, WARM YOUR HANDS

WITH SOME OIL AND ENSURE ROOM IS WARM AND KNOW DRAUGHT.
 SLOWLY AND GENTLY SMOOTH A LITTLE OIL IN BETWEEN BABY CHEST.
STROKE UP THE OIL TO THE SHOULDER DOWN TO THE CHEST,BELLY AND ABDOMEN, WITH THE TIP OF YOUR FINGERS. MAKE IT A DELIGHTFUL STROKE THAT YOU CAN USE TO CALM YOUR BABY AT ANYTIME.

KEEP PRESSURE VERY LIGHT AND SMOOTH BOTH HAND OVER IN A
CONTINUOUS CIRCULAR STROKE.WORKING UP THE BABY'S RIGHT
SIDE, ACROSS AND DOWN BABY'S LEFT SIDE. REPEAT CIRCULAR STOKES SEVERAL TIMES.

GENTLE STRETCH BABY'S BOTH ARMS OUT AND GENTLY SQUEEZE ALONG THE ARM
WITH A SMOOTH TOUCH MASSAGE DOWN TO THE WRIST, PALMS, SPREADING
AND STRETCHING THE FINGERS ONE AFTER THE OTHER WITH A SLIGHT PULL.

                                                   WORKING ON THE BACK
TURN THE BABY OVER ON THE FRONT. APPLY SMALL AMOUNT OF OIL
AND START STROKING THE BABY BY THE SIDE OF THE SPINE WITH A CONTINUOUSS
CIRCULAR STOKE UP TO THE SHOULDER WITH A SMOOTH TOUCH MASSAGE
TO THE NECK AND AROUND THE EARS, STROKE BACK FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF
THE EAR DOWN TO THE NECK AND CONTINUE WITH THE CONTINUOUS
CIRCULAR MOVEMENT DOWN TO THE WAIST MOVE YOUR THUMBS AROUND
THE WAIST WITH A LITTLE GENTLE MASSAGE AND SMOOTHLY IN A CONTINUOUS
CIRCULAR STROKES BACK UP TO THE SHOULDER AND USE YOUR THUMBS TO
GENTLY MASSAGE THE SHOULDER AND THE BASE OF THE NECK AND DOWN
AGAIN TO THE BUTTOCKS.

GENTLY KNEAD AND SQUEEZED THE BUTTOCKS AND MAKE A LOOSE FIST AND
ROTATE  IT OVER THE BUTTOCKS IN A CIRCULAR MOVEMENT.

                                          WORKING ON THE THIGH, LEGS AND FEET.
MOVE  THUMBS IN A CONTINUOUS CIRCULAR MOVEMENT SUPPORTING
THE LEG WITH BOTH HANDS GENTLY SQUEEZE AND RELEASING THE
FLESHY PART OF THE THIGH STROKE THE THIGH DOWN TO THE KNEE,
 BACK UP THE THIGH AND DOWN TO THE KNEE,USE THUMB TO GO
ACROSS THE KNEE TO THE LEG AND GENTLY MASSAGE DOWN TO THE FEET.
GENTLY SMOOTH THE PALM OF YOUR HAND OVER THE TOP OF THE FOOT
FROM TOE TO ANKLE AND BACK AGAIN, WHEN YOU GET TO THE TOES
GENTLY STRETCH ONE AFTER THE OTHER. DO THE SAME ON THE SECOND LEG

                                               AND KISS YOUR BABY GOOD NIGHT.
                                               YOU ARE THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER
                                                              HAPPEN   TO YOUR CHILD.

5 SENSUAL MASSAGE THAT MAKES HIM/HER ADDICTED TO YOU

EROTIC MASSAGE;

THE EARS ARE A POWERFUL EROGENOUS ZONE .
A HEAD MASSAGE IS SUPERBLY RELAXING, HELPS TO REALISE ALL THE DAYS STRESS AND TENSION.

YOU CAN MASSAGE YOUR PARTNER BREAST BY KNEELING BEHIND HER.

MASSAGE OF THE DELICATE SKIN OF THE FACE FEELS STRANGELY INTIMATE.

THE LOSS OF LIBIDO CAN AFFECT BOTH MEN AND WOMEN AND IT CAN BE TOTAL LACK OF SEXUAL INTEREST.

SUFFERERS OF IMPOTENCE USUALLY FEEL FRUSTRATED AS THEY STILL HAVE THE DESIRE TO HAVE SEX,

PEOPLE WHO HAVE A REDUCED LIBIDO TEND TO AVOID LOVEMAKING AND THAT WILL MAKE THEIR PARTNER FELL REJECTED AND CONFUSED.

THE CAUSES OF LOW SEX DRIVE ARE OFTEN VERY COMMON THINGS, SUCH AS STRESS, DEPRESSION, PHYSICAL ILLNESS,OVER WORK OR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS.

                YOU CAN OVER COME LOSS OF LIBIDO JUST BY SHOWING LOVE
                                                        TO YOUR PARTNER.

A HEAD MASSAGE IS ONE OF THE NICEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE YOUR PARTNER.
ESPECIALLY IF THEY HAVE HAD A HARD DAY.
AS MASSAGE WILL RELEASES ALL TENSION.

              TAKE OF ALL JEWELLERY THAT MIGHT CATCH ON THE SKIN.
                              AND READY TO USE YOUR SENSUAL TOUCH.
WITH SOFTLY LIT ROOM, PLAY A RELAXING MUSIC, AND USE APHRODISIAC ESSENTIAL OILS SUCH AS ROSE,SANDALWOOD, NEROLI AND PATCHOULI.

BE GENTLE AND SPICE YOURSELF TO A RELAXING MOOD.
MASSAGE SHOULD BE HIGHLY PLEASURABLE AND SENSUAL EXPERIENCE, ALSO
FOR RELAXING THE BODY AND AROUSING THE SENSE.

*1) WITH YOUR PARTNER LYING ON THEIR FRONT START BY RESTING YOUR PALM GENTLY ON THE BACK OF THEIR SHOULDER BLADE. MOVE YOUR PALM ACROSS THE BACK, SWEEPING YOUR HANDS OUT AND AROUND OVER THE SHOULDER.

*2) SQUEEZING AND RELEASING THE MUSCLES ON EACH SIDE OF THE NECK  AND SHOULDER,WORK YOUR HAND DOWN TO THE BACK OF THE NECK, INTO THE BACK OF THE HEAD, AND WORK IT BACK TO THE MIDDLE OF THE BACK, MOVE YOUR HAND SIDE BY SIDE ON YOUR  PARTNER RIGHT AND LEFT SIDE OF THE BACK.

*3) CHECK THAT YOUR PARTNER'S NECK IS STILL COMFORTABLE START MOVING YOUR HANDS AGAIN FROM THE SHOULDER, STROKE IT GENTLY TO THE EACH SIDE OF THE SPINE. WHEN YOU GET TO THE LOWER BACK, RETURN UP FROM EACH SIDE OF THE SPINE, MOVING THE HAND TOGETHER AT THE SAME TIME WITH MORE PRESSURE, REPEAT 3 TIMES.

*4)MOVE ROUND SO THAT YOUR PARTNER CAN REST THEIR HEAD ON YOUR THIGHS. PLAY WITH YOUR PARTNER SCALP A LITTLE WITH A SOFT TOUCH MASSAGE, MOVING YOUR HAND GENTLY BY SPREADING THE MASSAGE SMOOTHLY TO THE NECK, AND A LONG STROKE OF MASSAGE DOWN TO THE BUTTOCKS, SWEEP YOUR HAND APART AND PUT A SOFT FIRM HOLD ON BOTH SIDE OF YOUR PARTNER WAIST, GIVE THE WAIST A SMOOTH TOUCH MASSAGE BY CALMLY GENTLY GRABBING THE WAIST, ROTATE YOUR HAND BACK AND FRONT AND USE A SOFT PRESSURE FROM THE HEEL OF THE THUMP TO GENTLY MASSAGE FROM UPPER SIDE TO THE BOTTOM SIDE, REPEAT 3 TIME,  AND STROKES YOUR HAND  BACK UP THROUGH THE SPINE SIDE, BACK TO THE SHOULDER REPEAT 3 TIMES.

*5) TURN AROUND TO THE BUTTOCKS, USING THE HEEL OF YOUR PALM OLD THE BUTTOCKS FIRM THEN COME BACK TO THE START AND WORK OVER A DIFFERENT AREA, THE NERVES  ACROSS MAN PENIS AND THE BALLS ARE HIGH EROGENOUS AREAS, THE WOMAN CLITORIS AND THE AREA OF IT ARE HIGH EROGENOUS AREAS, BUT BOTH MAN AND WOMAN ANAL AREA AND THE ANAL RING IS A VERY HIGH EROGENOUS AREA. STROKES YOUR FINGERS GENTLY WITH PATIENT IN THIS ARENA BECAUSE THEY ARE SENSITIVE PART OF THE BODY.

NOTE THAT THE SECRET OF EROTIC MASSAGE IS THE GENTLE TOUCH. AND HOW YOU LIFELESSLY WORK YOUR HAND AROUND THE AREA OF THE BODY.

THE HEAD*
SHOULDER*
BREAST*
THIGHS*
BUTTOCKS*

ARE VERY IMPORTANT WHEN APPLY MASSAGE. THERE IS KNOW CLEAN WAY OF DOING MASSAGE THAN TO MAKE SURE YOU BOTH HAVE A NICE SHOWER BEFORE GOING TO BED, BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO PLAY DIRTY TO ACHIEVE SENSUAL STIMULATION. YOU CAN USE ANY PART OF YOUR BODY TO AROUSE YOUR PARTNER. SUCKING YOUR PARTNER ANAL AREA IS VERY ENJOYABLE, IT MIGHT LOOK DIRTY IN THE BEGINNING BUT AM SURE YOU WILL ENJOY IT.

SUCKING OF THE CLITORIS IS NOT ABOUT JUST SUCKING. IT AS TO BE SUCKED IN A WAY THAT THE WOMAN WILL NOT FEEL YOUR TEETH.

WET YOUR BOTH LIPS WITH SPIT, IF YOUR LIPS IS NOT SMOOTH USE VASELINE TO REMOVE THE DEAD SKIN, USE YOUR BOTH LIPS TO HOLD YOUR PARTNER CLITORIS DOWN AND GENTLY PULL IT UP, AND RELEASE YOUR TONGUE AND SWEEP IT ROUND AND ROUND AND DO MORE OF THE GENTLE PULLING LIKE YOU SUCKING IT INTO YOUR MOUTH AND THE TONGUE WILL DO THE RELEASING OF THE ARREST OF THE CLITORIS, USE YOUR TONGUE FASTER AND GENTLY START THE SWEEPING AROUND FOR BEST SATISFACTION

MEN AREA ARE SENSITIVE WOMEN YOU ALL KNOW WHAT TO DO.
                       
                              YOU CAN TEASE YOUR PARTNER WHEN MASSAGING
                              THEIR THIGHS BY LIGHTLY BRUSHING YOUR HANDS
                         ACCIDENTALLY OVER THEIR GENITALS ON THE UPWARD STROKE.
                           GRADUALLY INCREASING THE PRESSURE OF THIS ACCIDENTS.
                                 

                                    LEARNING IS A PROCESS THE MORE YOU PRACTISE
                                                          THE BETTER YOU BECOME.

ANNOYING THINGS SECURITY OFFICER'S DO.

IN MY OPINION, SECURITY OFFICER'S STANDING BY THE DOOR IN SHOPS MEANS.

THERE IS A SAFETY AND PRECAUTION IN THAT SHOP.

AND EVERYONE COMING INTO THAT SHOP WILL FEEL SECURE.
ALSO, CUSTOMER'S ARE AWARE THAT THE MAIN REASON WHY OFFICER'S ARE STANDING BY THE DOOR IS TO ENSURE  PRECAUTIONS AGAINST THEFT.
 SO I DO APPRECIATE THE JOB OF THE GOOD OFFICER'S.
REALLY, GOOD AND WELL TRAIN SECURITY OFFICER'S ARE DOING A VERY GOOD JOB.
 AND YOU HAVE A VERY BIG POSITIVE IMPACT IN FUNARABLE PEOPLES LIVES.

THE ANNOYING PART IS THAT SOME SECURITY OFFICER DON'T KNOW THEIR ROLE.

*WHY DOES SECURITY OFFICER FOLLOW WOMEN WITH BUGGIE ABOUT IN THE SHOPS?

I KNOW SOME WOMEN GO TO SHOP WITH BUGGIE OR SHOPPING BAG, EVEN TRAVELLING BAGS TO SHOP LIFT.
A THIEF IS A THIEF IT DOESN'T MEAN BUGGIE IS A LOGO OF THIEVES.
 THAT FACT DOES NOT SIGNIFY THAT EVERY WOMEN WITH BUGGIE IN THE SHOP ARE THERE TO SHOP LIFT?

GUYS! GET SOME TRAINING AND TACTICS TO TRACK DOWN A SHOP LIFTER S.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO FOLLOW ANYONE AROUND THE SHOP TO PROVE SHE WANT TO NICKED SOMETHING.
 WHY DON'T YOU GIVE THEM A CHANCE TO NICKED IT WHILE YOU STAND IN A PLACE WERE YOU CAN SEE YOUR SUSPECT AND CONFIRM THEY ACTUALLY STOLE SOMETHING.
 GET THE POLICE AND GET THEM SENT TO JAIL IF THEY ARE THIEVES.

IS A DISGRACE THAT MOST UN TRAIN OFFICER'S ARE BLACK AFRICANS.
YOU GUYS ARE MY PEOPLE AND I DO APPRECIATE YOU FOR THE JOBS YOU'VE DONE WELL.
 BUT ACTING LIKE THIS IS A DISGRACE TO SOCIETY AND A DISGRACE TO WERE YOU GUYS COME FROM.

WE'RE IN ENGLAND WERE EVERY ORGANISATION HAVE POLICIES AND PROCEDURE TO FOLLOW INCIDENT.
 AND I DON'T BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE TRAIN TO FOLLOW PEOPLE ABOUT.

 BECAUSE THAT DOES NOT PROTECT YOU AGAINST RISK AND ASSESSMENT.

WHAT IF YOU GOT PUNCHED IN THE FACE WHILE STICKING YOUR NOSE INTO WHAT PEOPLE ARE DOING?

I BELIEVE IF YOU SPOT A THIEF YOU WILL NEED A WITNESS THERE TO CONFIRM THAT THEY ACTUALLY STOLE STUFFS.

 THAT'S WHY YOU CAN'T PHYSICALLY STOP PEOPLES NOT TO STEEL, AND THAT'S WHY YOU SHOULD ALLOW THEM TO CARRY OUT THE ACT BEFORE CONFRONTATION.

I HAVE WITNESS SECURITY OFFICER'S AND MOTHER'S WITH BUGGIES MANY TIMES ARGUING OVER OFFICER TAILING THEM ABOUT IN THE SHOP.
AND YOU WILL OFTEN HEAR SOME WOMEN ANGRILY``SHOUT AT THE OFFICER'S STOP FOLLOWING ME AROUND, AM NOT A THIEF.
HONESTLY IS ANNOYING , UNPROFESSIONAL  AND IS SICKENING .
BECAUSE THAT ACTION SHOW YOU ARE WEAK AND THE SHOP LACK PROPER ORGANISATION IN THEIR ORGANISATION.
 IF YOU HAVE CCTV IN PLACE AND YOU ARE THEIR PROTECTING THE SHOP WHY DO YOU NEED FOLLOWING PEOPLE AROUND?

PROTECT YOUR SELF DON'T GET YOUR NOSE SHOPPED OFF BECAUSE OF £5 PER HOUR.

RESPECT WOMAN, BECAUSE SHE REPRESENT YOUR MOTHER OR YOUR WIFE.

THEY BROUGHT YOU TO THIS WORLD THEY ARE THE MOTHER OF THE EARTH.

AND NOT JUST WOMEN, RESPECT YOUR CUSTOMER'S, EVERYONE IS INNOCENT

UN TILL PROVEN GUILTY.

AND IN THIS CASE YOU ARE FOLLOWING AN INNOCENT PERSON ABOUT , WHAT DO

YOU THINK YOU ARE DOING? DO YOU CALL THAT A GREAT JOB OR CAN YOU USE 

THAT STUPID ACT AS A REFERENCE TO BECOME AN INTELLIGENCE IN THE POLICING

INDUSTRY?

*I GUESS SUCH OFFICER WILL ENJOY BEEN EMPLOY TO CASH A RAT.

BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO CHASE A MOUSE AROUND TO GET ONE.

*RESPECT YOUR SELF AND STOP HARASSING WOMEN BECAUSE YOU LIKE HER

AND USING OFFICER'S IN CHARGE OF SECURITY TO FOLLOW THEM ABOUT

PRETENDING THAT YOU ARE DOING A GREATER JOB, USE YOUR SENSE.
                            
                                       WHAT IS WHAT DOING IS WHAT DOING WELL

THE POWER OF SEDUCTION

  UNDERSTANDING THE DIFFERENT BETWEEN ATTRACTION AND SEDUCTION.
                                                                 
                                                                ATTRACTION
THERE IS NO ACCOUNTING FOR THE WAY INDIVIDUAL ARE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER.
 WE ARE ALL SUSCEPTIBLE TO THAT CERTAIN INDEFINABLE SPECIAL SOMETHING, THAT CREATE A TINGLE WHEN THE RIGHT PERSON COMES ALONG.

                                                        FIRST IMPRESSION;
 FIRST IMPRESSION ARE CRUCIAL, AS YOU RARELY GET A SECOND CHANCE. PEOPLE FORM THEIR FIRST IMPRESSION WITHIN FOUR SECONDS OF MEETING.  APPEARANCES DO COUNT: HAIR, NAILS,TEETH, SMELL, CLOTHES, ALL THE USUAL THINGS.

*THE SWEET SMELL OF ATTRACTION.
*FLIRTING (THAT IS WHEN THE GAME BEGINS)
* FIRST MOVES
*DATING - ( MEETING PLACES) - AND DATING ETIQUETTE.
*BODY LANGUAGE- (SEXUAL SIGNAL)
         
                                                THE NEXT STEP
HI-TEC APPROACHES
CONTINUING COURTSHIP - GIFT AND MORE, we talk in detail on the attraction topic
CYBER SEX such as TANTALISING TEXT, EXAMPLES; Hot4U -HOT FOR YOU. PCM - please call me, 26E4U -Too sexy for you, LOL-Laugh out loud.
 
          REMEMBER THE TOPIC ON  UNDERSTANDING PARTNERS BODY TO ACHIEVE SEXUAL HARMONY?
                                                          SEDUCTION
   THEN IS SEDUCTION is a delicate art of exploring the chemistry that exists between you and and your partner using it to the best possible advantage. it include romance, persuasion and temptation, and does not stop after the first thrills of a relationship. THE ART OF SEDUCTION ALSO INCLUDE COMFORT OF LYING TOGETHER AFTER SEX.

                    THE IMPORTANCE OF SEDUCTION  is that IS THE TRUE FOUNDATION OF SENSUALITY, SEXUAL ENJOYMENT AND FULFILMENT.
But sex is not just about the physical. unlike most animals, human have sex not for  procreation, but for relaxation, comfort, recreation and love. Also the enjoyment and fulfilment are laid in the brain.

AS THE MOST COMPLEX ORGANISMS IN THE ANIMAL KINGDOM, HUMAN NEED TO HAVE THE EROTIC EPICENTRE OF THE BODY, THE BRAIN STIMULATED WHEN PREPARING  FOR SEX.  PREPARATION, ANTICIPATION AND RELAXATION ALL OF THIS START IN THE HEAD.

TALKING ABOUT IRRESISTIBLE TEMPTATION EVEN THE MOST HARDENED CYNIC MELT WHEN A CERTAIN TUNE IS PLAYED ON THE RADIO. IT IS THE STAGE OF THE RELATIONSHIP, WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE, ROMANCE DOES NOT HAVE TO BE ALL ABOUT GIVING FLOWERS, TEDDY AND LETTERS.

THE BEGINNING OF A RELATIONSHIP IS THE GROUNDING FROM WHICH ALL YOUR MEMORIES WITH THAT PERSON WILL BLOSSOM. IT IS A SAD FACT THAT THE BETTER YOU GET TO KNOW SOMEONE THE MORE COMPLACENT YOU ARE LIKELY TO BECOME ABOUT ROMANTIC GESTURES. SO THE SCOPE FOR THESE GESTURES ARE LIMITED.

SHOW YOUR PARTNER THAT YOU ARE STARTING TO UNDERSTAND THEM, AND THAT YOU ARE LISTENING TO WHAT THEY SAY. ALSO THAT YOU CARE ABOUT WHAT THEY WANT. buying things that you hear them mention to show them that it reminds you of them.
DO MORE STUFF OF THE THINGS YOU SEE THEM DO TO CREATE BOND.

                                                                     KISSING
SOME LIPS ARE MADE FOR KISSING you can tell the sort of a lover someone will be by the way they kiss. kissing is the first moment of sexual contact and when you kiss with passion it releases a chemical in the brain that create enjoyable physical sensation.

                                                                      FOREPLAY
TAKE YOUR TIME TO UNDRESS EACH OTHER SLOWLY IF YOU CAN BEAR THE ANTICIPATION.  USING BOLD AND CONFIDENT MOVEMENTS TO AROUSE YOUR PARTNER TO STUPOR. BECAUSE YOU ARE BOTH LEARNING AND WORKING OUT WAYS TO RELAX AND PLEASE ONE ANOTHER.

                                                                     TALKING DIRTY
TALKING DIRTY CAN INVOLVE TALKING ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS, ALSO HOW YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX, THE POSITIONING, AND COMMENTING ON  HOW GOOD YOUR PARTNER IS AS WELL.

                                                                      EROGENOUS ZONES
DOESN'T HAVE TO BE BREAST ,TESTICLES, AND PENIS ALONE. THINK ABOUT THE NAVEL, TOE JOB, BACK AND FRONT OF THE NECK, ARMPIT, GENTLY TOUCHING AND CARESSING AND SUCKING AND LIKENING OF THE ANAL CIRCLE, FINGER, SENSUAL MASSAGE IF YOU ARE GOOD AT IT, YOU CAN READ MY MASSAGE TECHNIQUE TO GET MORE INFORMATION FOR BETTER WAY TO MASSAGE IT WILL HELP.

                                                                      POST -COITAL
SEDUCTION DOES NOT HAVE TO STOP WHEN SEX DOES. DO AFTER SEX CUDDLING, AND IS A TIME OF LYING TOGETHER, TALKING AND ENJOYING EACH OTHERS BODY.

 SEX AND SEDUCTION IS JUST AN EXTENSION OF A RELATIONSHIP . COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO A GOOD RELATIONSHIP.
SO MAKE SURE YOU ARE CLEAR ABOUT WHAT YOU NEED AND WANT FOR YOURSELF. 

I DON'T BELIEVE IN NOT EXPRESSING YOURSELF BECAUSE HE/SHE MIGHT FEEL YOU NAGGING HIM OR HER. YOU HAVE TO BE HONEST BUT BE REANSONABLE AND GENTLE. BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO DO TO OTHER'S WHAT YOU DON'T WANT THEM TO DO TO YOU. BUT IF YOU NEED A CHANGE, YOU BETTER MAKE SOME NOISE.

                                                              INDIVIDIAL WEPON
THAT IS WHAT I CALL INTELEGENCE. WOMAN ARE MORE NATURAL ABOUT FLIRTING THAN MEN AND EVERY INDIVIDUAL ARE CERTAINLY GOOD AT SOMETHING THAT THEY CAN DO BETTER. SO DONT CARE ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOU, WE ARE TALKING ABOUT YOU AND YOUR MAN OR YOUR WOMAN. NOT SOMEBODY ELSES. DO WHAT EVER YOU CAN TO MAKE HIM OR HER FEEL YOU.

                                    IT WOUNT MATTER IF HE OR SHE GET DOWN
                                    WITH SOMEONE ELSE BECAUSE YOURS WILL
                                     STILL BE THE BETTER THAN THE BEST
                                      THAT AS EVER HAPPEN TO YOUR PARTNER.
                                                    AND IS A BIG ACHIVEMENT.
                                        

HOW CAN I KNOW IF MY PARTNER LOVE ME

YOU WILL FEEL LOVED AT ALL TIMES!

IF YOUR PARTNER MAKE A MISTAKE OR BEHAVE VERY BAD, OR YOUR PARTNER DO WRONG STUFFS. YOU MIGHT BE UPSET. BUT DEEP INSIDE YOU, YOU WILL FORGIVE HIM OR HER WITHOUT A SECOND THOUGHT.

THAT'S BECAUSE HE OR SHE AS ALWAYS SHOW YOU LOVE. AND YOU HAVE GROWN TO LOVE THEM BACK.

WHAT IF HE DID NOT LOVE YOU?  Is good to love your man or your woman. But instead of loving him or her beyond control, i think you should love him or her a little and channel all that remaining loving feelings towards yourself.

You are all you've got. Any body who does not love you unconditionally does not deserve you. There is know excuse in love. Love does not judge or hate. love is an oxygen, if LOVE is not there, you can't find it there. if he or she loves you? you will not need my information or anybodies opinion to tell you whether he/she loves you or not.


Putting you down or hitting you isn't love. love will not punch you. love will not insult you. love care and love can not be mistaking. when you see love you will know is love.

YOUR partner does not want to hear your voice? yeah! that will be  Because you are demanding from he/she what they did not have. If your partner does not love you he can't feel love for you.

If You are  feeling something is wrong because of your partner attitude towards you, that makes them behave out of love for you. NO! DON 'T GET IT ALL MIXED UP. There  is noting wrong with your partner. he/she is fine, your partner will be fine when he/she is with the one they truly love.

If you are the one worrying to make your partner feel loved, what do you think your partner job is?

Are you feeling You are not experiencing love in your relationship? Or you are feeling that you are not love by the one you love?  But you are crazily in love and you don't think you can live without them? WELL, that is not love is lust.

YOUR partner is too quiet and seem bored. BUT when you try to cheer him/HER up it ended up in disaster. Do you call that love?  NO! that is not love.

 If he loves you.  you will be reading this for fun. But if your heart is heavy, and you are wondering where did you go wrong?  And all the No's in  this information matches your worries. believe me is not your fault you've mistaking infatuation for love. And if all this match his behaviour or hers and you don't leave him or her soon, it might be too late. Because there is someone out there waiting to give you all the love and attention that your soul needs.

 Don't delay. If he does not love you he don't deserve you. If you are the love of his/her life. Is simple because he will do everything to prove HIS/HER love for you, to stop you from moving on with your life. If he does not care whether you move on or not, don't get hurt cause you've taking the right step. And the right step is to move on and find your own soul mate.

THE ONE! Who's soul will be bitter when ever he sees tear drops on your eyes, THE ONE that will open your eye and you will start  to realise  who you really are.

TIPS;
There's noting wrong in a woman or a man looking out for WHO THEY LOVE. And showing each other how much love they have for each other. But woman need to be careful when applying that method of you know i love you. And i want to care for you. Is okay with some lazy men.

But that method is not okay where an active man is concern. A man means a man. and that involves recognising that his the boss. Woman love is secondary where this kind of men is concern.

Woman love can not dominate because it will involve control. And when a woman get use to looking out for there partner, That is when woman turn to control freak unconsciously.

 And that kind of affection will damage any good relationship. If you can't make a man feel important it will be had to keep a man.

 Every mans concern is make me feel important woman. I am not a child. You love him? fine! Give him opportunity to shower you with is own love. Remind him of your love by thanking him when he deserve it and i love you words as often as possible.

ON THE OTHER HAND ; every man want to be treated like a child. Recognising the different is what is complicated. Touching, Given attention to his concerns, Encouraging him even when you know that his wrong, Get him food to eat, Remind him to change his shirt, and more and more is that not managing him has a child? And in fact is it not telling him what to do?

 Woman to manage a man is to manage your home. If you can not manage him? you can not manage a home. Because his the foundation of the home. He is not perfect. But he believe he knows it all.

 Accept he knows it all.  And SUPPORT him. Download all the information THAT YOU WANT HIM TO BE AWARE OF to him lovingly and respectfully.

He will respond as long as you say yes when he say yes. And know when he say know. If you are a wise woman you will realise that there is always a chance for DARLING why not give this a try. You are still not in control but you will be successful IN MAKING HIM DO WHAT YOU WANT HIM TO DO.  And that is what count.

MEN; stop lying.

         WE WILL UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH OUR PARTNER LOVES US
          IF WE LEARN TO WASH ONE HAND WITH ANOTHER.

HOW CAN I MAKE HER RESPECT ME AS A MAN

A MAN IS A MAN.

 IF YOU ARE NOT FEELING LIKE A MAN, KNOW ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A MAN.

FEELING LIKE A MAN IS NOT A WOMAN RESPONSIBILITY.

WOMAN HAVE NO RESPONSIBILITY ON HOW A MAN PERCEIVE THERE PERSONALITY.

SHE'S BOSSY. "YES! SHE'S LIVING HER LIFE THE WAY SHE WANT TO LIVE IT? SO!

 IF YOU DON'T LIKE HER WAYS, OR YOU ARE FEELING TREATING BY HER ABILITY,

PRETEND THAT YOU KNOW BETTER THAN HER. AND PUSH YOURSELF FORWARD BY LEARNING NEW SKILL.  FIND OUT ABOUT  MORE INFORMATION ON HOW TO BOOST YOUR CONFIDENT.  WORK ON NEW GOALS OR PROJECT THAT IS BIGGER THAN HER'S, THAT YOU FIND INTIMIDATING.


A WOMAN ABILITY SHOULD BE HER HUSBAND'S PRIDE. ENVY IN A RELATIONSHIP OR FAMILY LIFE ONLY BRING DANGEROUS ACTION'S.

DETACH YOUR SELF FROM BAD WAYS OF THINKING. AND WORK THING OUT WITH YOUR FAMILY OR YOUR PARTNER.

COMPROMISE WORK'S IF YOU DISCUSS THE ISSUE THAT IS BOTHERING YOU WITH YOUR WOMAN.

"YES" I KNOW YOU ARE A MAN. AND YOU CAN'T PUT YOURSELF DOWN BY CALLING HER TO HEAR YOUR WORRIES.  BECAUSE YOU ARE THINKING, SHE MIGHT THINK, THAT YOU ARE A WEAK MAN. OR MAYBE YOU JUST DON'T WANT TO PUT YOURSELF DOWN. BY SITTING HER DOWN AND START EXPLAINING YOURSELF TO HER.

 THAT THINKING IS FOR AS HOLES, THAT IS NOT HOW A MAN SHOULD BE THINKING.

A MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE.

 IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT A MAN IN IT, THERE IS KNOW RELATIONSHIP.

 IF YOU ARE TRUE LY A MAN. YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOU ARE FAR MORE IMPORTANT IN THE WORLD OF TO DAY. THAN  THE WAY YOU ARE THINK.

IF YOU DON'T STEP OUT AND MEND THE BROKEN DOWN PART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

 KNOW ONE WILL DO IT FOR YOU.

 REMEMBER! YOU DON'T WANT HER TO BE THE MAN OVER YOU. OR THE BOSSY ONE.

 AND YOU DON'T LIKE BEEN TOLD BY A WOMAN WHAT TO DO. THAT WHY YOU SHOULD STEP UP AND DO YOUR JOB AS A MAN SHOULD DO IT.

ALSO IF YOU DON'T LET GO OF THAT HORRIBLE FEELINGS. AND BAD WAYS OF THINKING.  WHO IS GOING TO DO THE TALKING? AND WHO'S GOING TO MAKE CHANGES TO ALL THE SITUATIONS, THAT YOU ARE NOT HAPPY ABOUT?

 IS YOUR JOB AS A MAN TO MAKE CHANGES WHEN SITUATIONS ARISE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. AND IS A WOMAN'S RESPONSIBILITIES TO WORK TOGETHER WITH YOU, FOR YOU TWO TO BE ABLE TO MAINTAIN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP.

IF SHE'S BEEN DOING ALL THE TALKING FOR YOU BEFORE, DROP YOUR EGO AND THANK HER. FOR ALL THE HAD JOB SHE'S DONE.  FOR BOTH OF YOU. BECAUSE SHE'S DONE IT ALL ALONE WITHOUT YOUR SUPPORT.

WAIT A MINUTE!  HAVE YOU EVER TAKEN A STEP BACK AND CHECK WITH YOURSELF IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM?

WHAT IF SHE'S ONLY ACTING IN YOUR FAVOUR.  AND YOU ARE SEEN HER AS A TREAT?

WHAT IF SHE'S NOT A TREAT AT ALL?

WHAT IF YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE SHE CARES FOR?

AND WHAT IF SHE DOES NOT HAVE A CLUE THAT HER ATTITUDE BOTH ER'S YOU?

 WHAT IF SHE FEELS YOU ARE COOL WITH HER!

ARE YOU SURE YOU ARE DOING THE TALKING YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO BE DOING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

"IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHY YOUR WOMAN DOES WHAT SHE DOES. YOU ARE TRUE LY NOT A MAN AND SHE'S NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT FEELINGS IN YOUR HEAD".

BECAUSE IF YOU CARE FOR HER .YOU WILL HAVE A BIT OF CLUE OF WHY SHE'S DOING WHAT SHE'S DOING.

IF YOUR WOMAN IRRITATE YOU BY POINTING OUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING WRONG.

 AND CORRECT YOU IN AWAY THAT YOU DO NOT LIKE.

I THINK YOU SHOULD BE WORRY ABOUT YOUR SELF BECAUSE INSTEAD OF YOU GUIDING YOUR WOMAN SHE'S THE ONE LOOKING OUT FOR YOU.

 AND YOU ARE MAD WITH HER INSTEAD OF YOU APPRECIATING HER EFFORT.

 WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?

WHAT WENT WRONG AND WHY DID SHE TAKE THE LEAD INSTEAD OF YOU.

 IF THE POSITION OF WHO IS LEADING IS VACANT THAT IS WHEN WOMAN TAKES IT.

 MAN IS THE RIGHTFUL OWNER OF RELATIONSHIP LEADER. WHY AREN'T YOU LEADING?

SHE'S YOUR WOMAN CALL HER BACK TO SENSES. USE THE MAN SENSE TO PUT YOURSELF BACK IN THE LEAD.

IF YOU ARE A MAN AND THE MAN OF THE HOUSE YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND WHAT POWER STRUGGLE IS.

IF SHE LISTEN TO YOU, TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS SEEK YOUR OPINION BEFORE ANY ACTION SHE'S TAKEN, RESPECT YOUR OPINION, BUT NAG YOU ONCE IN AWHILE IS PART OF WOMAN LIFE STYLE AND ACCUSE YOU ONCE IN A WHILE IS STILL NOT BAD.

THERE MIGHT BE A CONCERN IF A WOMAN DECIDED TO BE HER HUSBAND BOSS.
SOME MEN DON'T LIKE THAT.
OR PURSUING CARER WITHOUT HER HUSBAND INPUT WHERE CHILDREN IS INVOLVE.  YEAH! THAT CALLS FOR DISCUSSION. IN MY OPINION.  I BELIEVE WOMAN SHOULD SEEK THERE HUSBAND OR PARTNER OPINION BEFORE TAKEN CERTAIN STEPS.  AND IF IN YOUR OWN CASE YOUR WOMAN DON'T THINK YOU MATTER. THAT IS WHEN YOU NEED TO PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN. TWO DRIVER CAN NOT DRIVE A CAR AT DI SAME TIME. YOU WILL NEED HELP AND INFORMATION TO DEAL WITH THE SITUATION WITHOUT BLACKMAILING YOUR WOMAN.

IF YOU HELP YOUR WOMAN TO STOP ACTING LIKE A MAN BECAUSE SHE'S ALREADY GOT TING A MAN THAT IS FINE.

 THERE ARE SO MANY METHOD TO DO THIS.

 BUT YOU NEED TO SELF CHECK FIRST MAYBE YOU ARE THE ONE THAT NEED TO BE A MAN AND STOP BLAMING THE WOMAN FOR YOUR LACK OF CONFIDENT. OR YOU NEED A WOMAN WHO IS MORE INTELLIGENT OR WHO CAN MANAGE A RELATIONSHIP BETTER.

A WORD OF ADVICE

ALL WOMAN ARE DI SAME. SOME JUST UNDERSTAND HOW TO PLAY THE GAME BETTER! SO BE WISE!  MY MAN.

HOW YOU CAN ENJOY YOUR SEX LIFE EVEN BETTER

SEX IS THE STRONGEST LINK TO A BEST RELATIONSHIP
.
 WHETHER IS A SOFT TOUCH SEX, OR RUDE RAUNCHY SEX
.
THE CHEMISTRY BEHIND IT, IS THAT WE WANT TO HAVE SEX AND  ENJOY IT.

ALL THAT EFFORT IN TAKING OFF OUR CLOTH , IS BECAUSE WE WANT TO FEEL THAT SWEET FEELING AND THE ENJOYMENT THAT IS IN SEX, WE DON'T WANT TO END UP SAYING, WHAT A RUBBISH.

MOST INFORMATION IN LIFE COMES NATURALLY. BUT WE NEED TO LEARN SOME TECHNIQUES TO PERFECT WHAT WE ALREADY KNOW.

TO GET THE BEST OUT OF YOUR SEX LIFE, YOU NEED TO CONSIDER YOUR PARTNER AND WORK TOGETHER WITH YOUR PARTNER TO BE ABLE TO ENJOY SEX.



HONESTLY SEX IS A SWEET EXERCISES. AND THE BEST EXERCISES YOU CAN GET.

EVEN THE PAIN IN SEX IS SWEETER THAN THE GOING IN AND OUT PART OF IT.

POOR SEX ARE DUE TO POOR EMOTIONAL CONNECTION IN MANY CASES.

ON THE OTHER HAND GOOD SEX CAN TRANSFORM A RELATIONSHIP.

THE ONLY SCIENCE TO GOOD SEX IS THAT SKILLS ARE NEEDED AND THIS CAN BE TAUGHT AND LEARNT.

SEX IS NOT JUST ABOUT I WANT SEX. IS ABOUT EMOTION, DRIVE,

EXPERIMENTATION, PASSION, LOVE, FRIENDSHIP,CARE, TENDERNESS AND SELF-

EXPRESSION.  YOU NEED TO KNOW YOUR OWN NEEDS AS WELL AS THOSE OF YOUR PARTNER.

COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY ELEMENT TO A SUCCESSFUL SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP.

SEX IS ONE OF MANKIND'S STRONGEST APPETITES IN THE SEXUAL ARENA.

IF YOU CHECK SEX MENU YOU WILL BE AWARE THAT IS GOT A WHOLE LOT OF

EXCITING AND TEMPTING DELICACIES IN WHICH YOU CAN ALWAYS CHOOSE FROM.
                 

                                      LESS GET DOWN TO BUSINESS

1; EVERYBODY LIKE SWEET SMELL, IT BRINGS ATTRACTION. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A SHOWER BEFORE LYING CLOSE TO YOUR MAN OR WOMAN. THERE IS NOTING MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN PERCEIVING THAT BEAUTIFUL SMELL OF YOUR PARTNER.

2; COMMUNICATION;  TALK ABOUT SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL. LISTEN TO MUSIC AND COMMENT ON IT, GET A BOOK OR GOOD FOOD MAYBE FRUIT AND BRING UP CONVERSATION THAT WILL ENGAGE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER.. WHILE ON THE CONVERSATION GENTLY INTRODUCE TOUCHING AND CUDDLING AND KISSING AND AND AND.

3; FOREPLAY;  IS THE BEST WAY TO CONNECT. AND A WAY TO BE AWARE OF YOUR PARTNER LIKES AND DISLIKES. IS A EXCITING EMOTION AND SENSATIONAL FEELINGS. FOREPLAY SIMPLY MEANS EXPLORING EACH OTHER PHYSICALLY AND SENSUALLY.

IN ORDER TO ACHIEVE HARMONY WITH YOUR PARTNER, YOU MUST HAVE AN UNDERSTANDING OF BOTH YOUR LOVER'S BODY AND YOUR OWN. EXPLORE EACH OTHER BY TOUCHING AND TASTING EVERY AREAS OF YOUR BODIES.

AND FOR YOU MY FRIENDS OUT THERE, WHO AS COMPLETELY LOST INTEREST IN SEX, WHAT YOU NEED IS TO SPICE YOUR SELF UP. AND IF YOU JUST DON'T WANT YOUR PARTNER ANYMORE LET GO AND GET ANOTHER ONE. YOU CAN'T LIVE ONE DAY TWICE.

IF YOU THINK YOUR RELATIONSHIP ONLY NEED A SHAKE UP, OR YOU LOOKING FOR AWAY TO GET YOUR SELF IN THE MOOD AGAIN.


                                                             TRY THIS
CHECK IF YOUR PARTNER STILL LOOK ATTRACTIVE. BODY SHAPE AS GOT NOTING TO DO WITH BEEN ATTRACTIVE, USING RIGHT CLOTHING FOR THE RIGHT SHAPE IS WHAT IS SEXY.

GIVE YOURSELF SOME T L C

SOME RED WINE CAN AID AROUSING . JACK DANIEL WILL DO IT FOR ME, YOU HAVE TO TEST YOUR BODY AND WHAT YOUR BODY NEED.

PHYSICAL EXERCISES AND DANCING CAN ALSO PUT YOU IN A GREAT MOOD

SIBERIAN GINSENG WORKS WONDERS TOO

TRY TO USE VITAMINS AND PHYSICAL EXERCISES TO BOOST YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS BACK TO SEXUAL LIVE. IS THE BEST AND AVOID UNNECESSARY DRUGS, YOU WILL BE FINE.