WHY IS IT SO HARD TO GET WHAT YOU WANT.

Most people are thinking about what they don't want.
And they wondering why they are so unlucky.
You thought does not care whether you perceive something to be good or bad
Or whether you don't want it or you do want it.
Your mind will respond to your thought and law of attraction will process it.

So if you are sitting down feeling terrible about something you want or don't want
That is the signal you 're putting out into the universe, something like i feel really bad because of
this, that is what you are affirming to yourself. And has you are feeling it on every level of your being,
That is what you are going to get more of. the law of attraction is a very obedient law.

When you think the things that you want like a change in your life or circumstances and you focus on them with all of your intention the law of attraction will give you what you want. You don't want to take a job of a barrister when you know that you don't have the qualification, you work towards your goal and use the power in your thought to achieve what you want to become.

When you focus on things you don't want, you are calling that into existence.
Everything you process on your mind with your thought will manifest, is what you are thinking, it will
Manifests. your thought always work whether you believe it or understand it or not, it is always working,
Anytime your thought are flowing.

the power of your thought is operational, it create the law of attraction and it always working.
your mind is creational, every time you prolonged chronic way of thinking, they are in creation process.
something is going to manifest out of those thoughts.

if you are complaining about how bad is it, what you are creating is more of  how bad it is. when you focus on something you don't want with a passion, it makes what you don't want happen faster.

when you are not happy about situation, accept what is done is done. And start focusing on how things can get better, think about what you want, the kind of relationship that you want, what you want to do for your partner, what you want your partner to do for you and so on.